resistance
Resistance is the thoughts you are thinking that do not match the vibration of what you want!
These thoughts feel negative to you because they don't match who you really are.
EVERY TIME YOU ARE IN A STATE OF RESISTANCE, YOU ARE PREVENTING THE VERY THING YOU WANT.
Ask yourself:
Is this thought/words/action an aspect of RESISTANCE or an aspect of ALLOWING?
Is this thought/expression/action going in the direction I prefer?
Is it focused on the solution?
Does it cause me positive emotions?
When you feel negative emotions you are focused on something you do not want, you are focused on something you dislike. You are in RESISTANCE. Resistance to the flow.
You cannot focus on a problem and be a vibrational match to the solution!
Only when you are focused on the solution, you are a vibrational match to the solution.