if it’s in your life...

If it’s in your life, it is because you want it!  And this is a universal truth.

The problem often is that we say we want something else, but we don’t mean it. Our actions, our choices and our decisions show us what we really want.

For example, I have a client who says that she doesn’t want to be treated badly, but she keeps going back to a relationship in which she’s treated badly. She says that she wants a loving partner, but she stays with a man who clearly doesn’t care about her. And that is what she gets.

We get what we want. We get what we tolerate.  We get what we say “yes” to.

 If it’s in your life, it is because you want it.